Was I Abusive?

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I have been asking this question a lot lately. When my ex left me he spread far and wide it was because I was controlling and abusive. This triggered deep things in me because I know control is something I use as a coping mechanism, but it’s always been in terms of being highly organised and keeping my house clean and tidy. The fastest way to get me to clean is to make me upset or angry because I will immediately try to take control of my environment to make…

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Seeking those moments of magic and trying to capture them with words. Exploring my depths. Living on an island at the bottom of the world.

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Lynda Claire

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Seeking those moments of magic and trying to capture them with words. Exploring my depths. Living on an island at the bottom of the world.

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